B"H
THOUGHTS FOR THE THREE WEEKS
Dear Friends:
Now the pain intensifies. On the Seventeenth of Tammuz the Temple Walls were breached and the unthinkable began to unfold in the Holy City of Jerusalem. This was the countdown to the unbearable events of Tisha B'Av.
But how much longer can we go on? After two thousand years of the world's foot grinding us into the dirt, just how much strength is left? How much hope? How much stamina?
"Behold, it is a nation that will dwell in solitude and not be reckoned among the nations." [1] So said Balaam.
It is hard these days to avoid reality. Some of us try very hard to pretend that everything is normal, but it's becoming increasingly difficult. June, for example, used to be a month when everyone relaxed. School is out, and it's time for fun. The lazy days of summer are upon us, a time for casting away cares and responsibility.
Where I live, the first three weeks of June were almost solid rain. With temperatures like April, we hardly saw the sun. What happened to our fun? Our beach parties?
G-d is telling us: it is NOT business as usual. The world is changing.
"A nation that will dwell in solitude and not be reckoned among the nations."
Is this a curse or a blessing?
Try as we may, my friends, we will NEVER be accepted among the nations. The ghetto walls may have been torn down, but there will always be a ghetto surrounding every Jew. Some may call it a curse, but I would call it the Clouds of Glory, which surrounded us in the Biblical Desert and continue to surround us now. No other nation has been surrounded by G-d's loving protection.
Here is how Rashi explains Balaam's words: "[The children of Israel] will not be annihilated with the other nations, as it says [2] "... I will effect annihilation among all of the nations [where I have dispersed you, but you I shall not annihilate. The Children of Israel] are not counted with the rest of the nations." [3]
Please, please my friends! Let us try to understand the implications of these words! Not only are we unlike the other nations, but we should not TRY to be like the other nations! We are the link between the nations and G-d; we are the priests of the world! Because we are so close to G-d, He promises to save us at the time of the Final Redemption. But in order to be saved, we have to live up to our nature, our essence.
The very essence of our being was revealed at Mount Sinai. At that moment we were "ish echad, b'lev echad," "like one man with one heart." [4] When we were in that state of unity, we were able to receive the Torah, because it was given to ALL OF ISRAEL AS A NATION, not individuals. [5] When we began to splinter and fight among each other, we began to lose the Torah and drift away from our Father in Heaven.
Unity and Torah go together. Disunity and Exile go together. That is why the Talmud tells us the Second Temple was destroyed and our calamitous exile began as a result of "sinas chinom," causeless hatred among us! [6]
And now, my friends, G-d asks us to BECOME ONE AGAIN, as we were at Mount Sinai. This sounds like a platitude; we have heard it before.
BUT OUR LIVES DEPEND ON IT!
- Even if you think that you hate your fellow Jew, ACT AS IF YOU LOVE HIM! Eventually your hatred will evaporate.
- If someone says "Hello" or "Good Shabbos," SMILE, even if you don't want to!
- RESPOND, audibly and with feeling.
- Greet your fellow Jew. He is your brother; she is your sister!
- If you are angry, make a SUPREME EFFORT to control yourself, as it says, "to those who curse me, let my soul be silent, and let my soul be like dust to everyone." [7]
How do we know this is correct? Because G-d instructs us explicitly how to "bless the Children of Israel ... and establish peace"! [8] How do we do it? With the well-known Blessing of the Kohanim, which we say daily in our prayers and when we bless our children: "May G-d illuminate His countenance for you and ... turn His countenance to you...." We are supposed to imitate G-d. If He blesses us by turning "His countenance" toward us, should we not do the same for each other? This is how we will bring peace to each other and to the world!
We must pour our energy into this task! If we don't work on these things with all our heart, then how will we survive in the days when G-d, "[inflicts] vengeance upon the nations that do not listen"? [9]
This is not a humble world, my friends, it is full of arrogance, but we are different. "Let one sit in solitude and be submissive... Let him put his mouth to the dust - there may yet be hope." [10] We are the nation that is compared to dust. From the dust we will arise, my friends. "Shake off the dust, arise! Don your splendid clothes, My people. Through [Moshiach] the son of Yishai...." [11]
The City will be rebuilt in purity and splendor. The Children will come home, and G-d will wipe the tears from the eyes of all those who have wept for Yerushalayim. "When G-d will return the captivity of Zion, we will be like dreamers. Then our mouth will be filled with laughter and our tongue with glad song." [12]
Soon, soon, my friends. We will see it with our own eyes!
Roy S. Neuberger
